Last month, @/alejandrooo made a post on instagram titled “things I want more of” for the start of the spring equinox that definitely caught my eye. having a few quiet moments to reflect on this prompt, i spent an afternoon writing the first things that came to my mind, and i loved it. and i’m sharing these with you.
Things I want more of…
warmth
long hugs
word games
slow mornings
comfortable clothing
alignment w/ Spirit
tending to gifts well
curating
galleries
reading
creative discovery of self
passion — in all forms, in many ways
mystery, miracles and magic
humor
belly laughter
destruction
accuracy
thick comforters
curiosity as intimacy
soul-fulfilling community
photographs
pictures of my mother
queerness - in love, in friendships, in being
being held
slowness + compassion
multiplicity of sensations
touch
beautiful experiments
tenderness
vivid dreams
lavender
questions
Black feminism - in being, in reading, in practice
speaking + learning Igbo
creating a home
creating memories + capturing them
citrus perfumes
dancing
taking up more space
emotional bravery
celebrations
Igbo highlife
food from home
hand written letters
seeing cardinals
flower gardens
cookie butter lattes
stimulating conversations
bitter lemon drink
massages
rose scented oils
writing what feels true & honest
witty dialogue
sunday afternoon readings
rubies
traveling
the color red
slow cooked meals
comfortable silence
evening walks
what would be on your list?
This is beautiful! That picture of you and your mum, beautiful. The flowers, beautiful. I want more of healing this year and yes, being held and belly laughter. Thank you ❤️
Looooove this post. Do you have a resource or perhaps a reading list you can point me to to learn more about Black Feminism? I'm so interested in getting involved more with these learnings, conversations, and actions steps towards change.
Also, I want to gift you everything on your list!!! 🤍🫂🍃!!